A Lesson from Graham
A Lesson from Graham
Wed Feb 03 01:50:00 EST 2010 | by Birdie
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My friend Dallas Willard says that the difference between animals and men is that animals are merely capable of managing their environment, what is in front of them, and human operate in time.  We plan, set goals, grow and become. I have been thinking about a lot this last week and what that means to me as a coach, a human.

Last week I went for my usual morning walk with my three shelties.  My 13 year old dog, Graham, began limping. It was a strange sort of limp and I feared she had torn her ACL, displaced her hip, or ripped a tendon, since her back leg was just hanging down and not touching the ground. I stopped and inspected it looking closely at her paws and saw nothing unusual.  So we started again. She followed with a scowl on her face.  I asked her if she wanted to return home.   I could tell that was not an option so I carried her a bit.  After awhile I put her down and she continued to walk slowly, limping in pain.  She sat down and chewed her paw again and even though I had already inspected it, I inspected it again.  This time I found a very small piece of acorn-like debris between her foot pads. I removed it and she immediately began to smile and jog!  She had not been able to manage her environment, but I could and we continued on to the dog park.

Since my dogs teach me valuable lessons, I began thinking about my players. Often when things seem wrong to them, and they are out of step, limping, I believe something horrible may be wrong with them.  My mind jumps to conclusions, is it a crisis?  A horrible event?  Something deep and dark?  But, just like Graham, this pain may be caused by something small and hidden, And I can probably help them relieve pain with a simple smile, a word of encouragement, sharing a meal.  Even though as humans we live in time, we also need help from others to manage life's thorns. Often something painful may not be as big of problem as it seems and we may be the ones who are called upon to make a huge difference.

keeping the faith,
birdie

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